Over time, I’ve noticed that some of the most important decisions people make around their homes are not just about timing or price, but about how those decisions are approached in the first place.
One example that’s been coming up more often recently is the question of whether to sell a home on the open market or privately, outside of the traditional MLS process. On the surface, it can seem like a straightforward choice. There’s data, there are studies, and there are clear opinions on both sides. But when you look a little closer, the picture becomes far less simple.
Two major studies released not long ago reached completely opposite conclusions about off-market home sales. One suggests that sellers leave money on the table by skipping broader exposure, while the other points to situations where private sales may actually lead to stronger outcomes. For homeowners trying to make sense of it, especially those without a real estate background, it can feel confusing and, at times, overwhelming.
What often gets missed in these conversations is that the numbers don’t always tell the full story. How a study is structured, what it measures, and what it leaves out can significantly shape the conclusion. And beyond the data, there are real-life factors that don’t always show up in percentages, like timing, privacy, convenience, and the overall experience of going through the process.
This becomes even more meaningful when working with older homeowners. Selling a home that has been lived in for decades is rarely just a financial decision. It can involve physical effort, emotional attachment, and the challenge of navigating a process that may feel very different from the last time it was experienced.
Taking a step back to understand both the research and the realities behind it can make a meaningful difference. When decisions are made with a clearer view of both the data and the human side of the process, it often leads to outcomes that feel more aligned, not just financially, but personally as well.
If you’re starting to think about this, whether for yourself or a parent, and want a clearer sense of your options, feel free to reach out.

From the Bay Area Wayback Machine

Atari Partners with Microsoft for BASIC Language Development (April 17, 1981)
Atari, Inc., headquartered in Sunnyvale, announced a partnership with Microsoft to develop a version of the BASIC programming language tailored for Atari’s home computers. This collaboration aimed to make programming more accessible to everyday users, allowing them to write and run their own software. The partnership reflected the rapid growth of the home computer market and the increasing importance of user-friendly programming tools in expanding personal computing.
This Week in Silicon Valley

Silicon Valley Lawmaker Secures Millions to Expand Veteran Housing
Ro Khanna has secured more than $3 million in federal funding to support improvements and potential redevelopment of a veteran housing site in East San Jose. The grant will help upgrade the existing shelter and explore plans to convert part of the property into permanent housing for veterans.
The site, operated by Abode Services, has faced ongoing concerns from residents, including maintenance issues and treatment by staff. During a recent visit, veterans shared frustrations about living conditions, including lack of hot water, mold, and limited amenities. Khanna emphasized the importance of not only securing funding but also ensuring veterans are treated with dignity and respect.
County officials say improvements are underway, including infrastructure repairs and future redevelopment plans. While progress has been made since the county acquired the property, challenges remain as leaders work to create safer, more stable housing for veterans.
Swinging Wings Fridays

Date: Friday, April 17
Time: 11:00 am – 11:00 pm
Location: Tipsy Putt – Silicon Valley, 301 W McKinley Avenue #150, Sunnyvale
Kick off your Friday with a fun mix of mini golf, great food, and easygoing vibes at Swinging Wings Fridays. Play a round, enjoy flavorful wings, and unwind with friends over drinks in a lively, relaxed setting. It’s a simple way to turn the end of the week into something a little more memorable.
Dancing With The Stars: Live! – 2026 Tour

Date: Saturday, April 18
Time: 4:00 pm & 8:00 pm
Location: San Jose Civic, 135 W. San Carlos Street, San Jose
Step into an evening of dazzling choreography and live entertainment with Dancing With The Stars: Live! – 2026 Tour. Featuring fan-favorite routines and high-energy performances, the show brings the excitement of the ballroom straight to the stage. Get ready for a vibrant experience filled with music, movement, and unforgettable moments.
The Bell Brothers

Date: Saturday, April 18
Time: 2:00 pm – 12:00 am
Location: Cooper-Garrod Estate Vineyards, 22645 Garrod Road, Saratoga
Experience the soulful sound of The Bell Brothers, a duo whose harmonies and storytelling have connected with audiences for nearly two decades. Blending country, rock, and Americana, their music carries a grounded, authentic energy shaped by years of performing together. It’s a warm, engaging live show that brings both heart and musicianship to the stage.
The Sinatra Show Comes to

Date: Saturday, April 18
Time: 6:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Location: Maggiano’s Little Italy, 3055 Olin Avenue, San Jose
Step into an elegant evening of music, dining, and timeless style at The Sinatra Show. Enjoy a refined dinner followed by a lively performance celebrating the classic songs and charm of a legendary era. It’s a sophisticated night out filled with romance, great music, and a touch of old-school glamour.
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