In today’s competitive real estate market, especially in high-demand areas like the Bay Area and Silicon Valley, creating a sense of urgency and curiosity in your property listings is crucial. The goal is to entice potential buyers to schedule a viewing as soon as possible, first by making them curious about what your home has to offer – it’s value proposition – and then by leveraging the fear of missing out (FOMO) to your advantage.
Curiosity is a powerful motivator. When potential buyers encounter a listing that piques their interest without revealing everything, they’re more likely to take the next step to learn more. In the case of real estate, the next step should be where they actually get off the couch and make it to your home for a personal visit. If buyers feel like they know everything about your house just from the photos, video, and marketing copy – and if they don’t see the value in the property juxtaposed against the list price – they’re far less likely to want to discover all your property has to offer through an in-person visit.
That right there is a value killer, because real buyers – the ones who will pay the most for your property – are those that will make the effort to see it in person. And if you’re not making these buyers curious enough about your property to the point they think a site visit it’s a worthy investment of their time, that’s going to show up in fewer requests for private showings, lighter open house attendance, and ultimately, fewer offers.
But once they get to the property, the next step is to leverage FOMO by making buyers feel they might miss out on a great opportunity if they don’t act quickly. FOMO won’t work on people who aren’t serious about your property, or who, once they get to see it in person, fail to see the value that your property represents. But for those serious buyers who visit. your home, see the value, and would consider making an offer, FOMO is a powerful tool to motivate them to make a strong offer on your home, and quickly.
An Insightful Study into FOMO and Real Estate Marketing
There’s actually some fascinating academic research out there that backs up what many of us in real estate marketing have known intuitively for years: the Fear of Missing Out is a powerful driver of buyer behavior. A study published in the Journal of Marketing Communications in 2016 dove deep into how externally triggered FOMO (like what buyers experience from listing photos, videos, or ad copy) can influence decision-making. It turns out that when people sense an opportunity is rare or fleeting—especially when it’s tied to lifestyle or exclusivity—they’re far more likely to act quickly to avoid that gnawing feeling of regret.
What’s especially interesting is that the study shows FOMO usually starts with a thought (“What if I miss this?”) and then turns into an emotional response—like anxiety, longing, or anticipation. That emotion can be triggered by more than just words. A single photo that teases a dreamy backyard or a quick video clip of sunlight pouring into the living room can flip a switch. We’re not just marketing a property—we’re marketing possibility, and that sense that someone else might snag it first can be a major motivator. The takeaway? When we craft our listing copy and visuals with intention—hinting at scarcity, highlighting lifestyle benefits, and leaving just a little mystery—we’re not just showing a home. We’re creating urgency that drives people off the screen and through the front door.
Crafting Compelling Listing Descriptions
Crafting compelling listing descriptions is both an art and a strategic tool in real estate marketing. A well-written description does more than just list features—it tells a story that helps buyers imagine themselves living in the home. The most effective descriptions highlight standout features, evoke emotion, spark curiosity, and create a sense of lifestyle, all while remaining clear and honest. In today’s competitive market, the right words can make all the difference.
1. Begin with Strong Opening Sentence
Your first sentence makes the first impression. Make it count by sparking curiosity.
Examples:
- “This home has a secret—and it’s hiding in plain sight behind one of the most inviting front doors in the neighborhood.”
- “From the outside, it’s charming… but step inside and prepare to be surprised by what you didn’t expect.”
- “The pictures can’t do this home justice, this is one you need to experience in person.”
2. Highlight Unique Features Without Giving Everything Away
When writing a listing description, it’s important to highlight the unique features that set the home apart—whether it’s a hidden wine cellar, a secret garden nook, or custom architectural details—but don’t give everything away upfront. Tease just enough to spark curiosity and make potential buyers want to see more in person. This creates intrigue and drives showings, which is where homes truly sell themselves. Think of your description as a movie trailer: give them the best scenes, but leave room for surprise. A little mystery goes a long way in creating urgency and interest.
Instead of listing every detail, focus on intriguing aspects that set the property apart.
Examples:
- “An entertainer’s dream with a twist you have to see to believe.”
- “Modern elegance meets unexpected charm in this one-of-a-kind residence.”
3. Use Descriptive Language to Paint a Picture
Using descriptive language in the listing description helps buyers visualize the lifestyle that comes with the home—not just the property itself. Instead of saying “large backyard,” try “an expansive backyard perfect for summer barbecues and evening stargazing.” Swap “updated kitchen” for “a chef-inspired kitchen with gleaming quartz counters and room to gather around the island.” The right words can evoke emotion, create a sense of place, and make the home feel warm, inviting, and memorable.
Help potential buyers visualize themselves in the home by using vivid, emotive language.
Examples:
- “Wake up to golden sunlight pouring through oversized windows and end the day with sunsets that feel like a private show, right from your backyard deck.”
- “Tucked behind a canopy of mature trees, this home holds a few surprises you won’t spot from the street—but step inside and the story unfolds.”
- “The moment you walk through the front door, you’ll feel it—that rare mix of charm, space, and something you can’t quite put your finger on.”
4. Create a Sense of Urgency
Creating a sense of urgency in your listing description can be the nudge that turns a casual scroll into a scheduled showing. Phrases like homes in this neighborhood rarely come up for sale, just listed and already generating buzz, or don’t miss your chance to own this one-of-a-kind retreat subtly suggest that the window of opportunity is closing. The goal isn’t to pressure, but to inspire action by emphasizing scarcity, exclusivity, or high demand. When buyers feel like they could miss out, they’re far more likely to act quickly—especially in a competitive market.
Encourage immediate action by emphasizing the property’s desirability and limited availability. Here are some more examples:
- “Interest is already high—this one won’t stay on the market for long.”
- “Opportunities like this in such a prime location are few and far between.”
- “If you’ve been waiting for the perfect blend of charm, space, and location—this is it, and it’s ready now.”
5. Leverage the Notion of Scarcity
Scarcity is a powerful psychological trigger in real estate marketing, and when used thoughtfully in listing descriptions, it can drive stronger buyer interest and faster action. That’s because people are more likely to desire something when they perceive it as limited and precious. In real estate, phrases like “rarely available,” “first time on the market in decades,” or “only a handful of homes like this exist” can tap into that mindset. When buyers believe that an opportunity is fleeting, it creates urgency and heightens emotional attachment—even before they’ve set foot in the home. This sense of FOMO isn’t about manipulation; it’s about emphasizing the genuine value of what’s at stake.
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Enhancing Listings with Photography and Video
High-quality photography and video can completely transform the way a listing is perceived—and how quickly it sells. Sharp, well-lit photos showcase the home’s best features, while a well-edited video tour gives buyers a sense of the flow, scale, and atmosphere that photos alone can’t capture. Drone footage can highlight a great lot or stunning views, and lifestyle shots help buyers connect emotionally with the space. In a crowded market, visuals are often the first—and sometimes only—chance to make a lasting impression. Investing in professional media isn’t just about looking good; it’s about standing out and sparking real interest.
Here are some specific tips for your photos and video:
1. Use Teaser Images
Teaser images are a powerful way to spark interest and drive clicks on your listing before a buyer even reads a word. Instead of showing everything all at once, start with an image that hints at something special—like a sun-drenched patio peeking through French doors or a dramatic entryway with a glimpse of what’s beyond. A well-chosen teaser photo creates just enough curiosity to make people want to see more – without showing a bunch of photos that do nothing to sell the property. Too many sellers just throw every photo they have into the listing, which takes the mystery right out of it and giving buyers the sense they already know everything important about your property without ever stepping in the door.
2. Be Strategic with the Video Tour
Incorporating a video tour is one of the best ways to boost engagement, but the key is to use it strategically—highlighting the home’s most desirable features while still leaving room for curiosity. A well-crafted video should showcase light-filled spaces, architectural details, and lifestyle moments like cozy reading nooks or evening-ready patios. But it shouldn’t reveal every corner or angle. By leaving out less flattering areas—or anything that might raise objections—you maintain control over the first impression. Think of the video as a cinematic trailer: it should create an emotional connection and make viewers eager to see the full story in person.
3. Focus on Lifestyle Benefits
Photos and video should do more than just show a house—they should sell a lifestyle. Instead of focusing solely on making the place look big through a wide-angle lens, or abusing tight shots on light and plumbing fixtures, great visuals highlight how the space lives. A morning coffee setup on the patio, a cozy firelit living room, or a kitchen island ready for gathering with friends—these moments help buyers envision themselves in the home. Drone shots of nearby parks or beaches, or footage of natural light flooding into the living spaces, can evoke emotion and connection. When buyers can see not just the structure, but the life they could have there, your listing stands out and sticks with them.
Creating Urgency and Exclusivity through Compass Private Exclusives
Compass Private Exclusives are a brilliant way to create FOMO and urgency—before a home even hits the public market. By sharing a property as a Private Exclusive, we offer a sense of insider access to a select group of buyers and agents. It’s not on Zillow, it’s not in the MLS—it’s only available through Compass agents. That exclusivity alone creates curiosity. Buyers start wondering what they might miss out on if they wait. It shifts the mindset from “maybe later” to “act now or risk losing it.”
What makes this approach so effective is that it taps directly into the psychology of scarcity. There’s something inherently more desirable about a home that’s out of reach for most people, and Compass Private Exclusives lean into that idea. By keeping a listing private while still getting it in front of serious, qualified buyers, you can build quiet momentum. When and if the property does go live to the broader market, it often has a built-in buzz—and sometimes it sells before that even happens. It’s a strategic way to create urgency without ever sounding like a sales pitch.
Nothing Drives FOMO like the Right Price
When it comes to creating real urgency and FOMO in a listing, nothing is more important than the price. You can have the perfect photos, a polished video, and beautifully written copy—but if the price is too high, buyers will feel it immediately. Today’s buyers are savvy. They’ve seen what else is out there, they’re watching the market, and they know when something feels overpriced. And the second that doubt creeps in, all that momentum you worked to build? It stalls. Urgency turns into hesitation. FOMO fades into indifference.
The right price, on the other hand, changes everything. It creates competition. It draws in multiple buyers who suddenly realize, “Wait—this could go fast.” And when that happens, people move quickly because they don’t want to miss their shot. A well-priced home feels like an opportunity, not a negotiation. It creates emotional engagement and fuels action. If you want to generate buzz, showings, and strong offers, pricing isn’t just a detail—it’s the foundation of the entire strategy.
Conclusion
By strategically crafting your property’s photography, video, and marketing copy to spark curiosity and create a sense of urgency, you can attract more potential buyers and increase the likelihood of a swift sale. Remember, the goal is to entice viewers to take the next step—scheduling a viewing—by offering just enough information to pique their interest without revealing all – and to leverage FOMO to get them to act quickly.
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